When his partner acted shocked and upset, he seemed amazed that it was 'such a big deal' because 'they do it all the time in porn and the girls like it'. One of them slept with a guy who attempted to go from vaginal sex to anal sex without any preparation, without any lube, and without asking or ever having talked about the possibility before. Quite a lot of my sexually active female friends have had sex with guys who got most or all of their sex ed from porn. Pretty much all of them have been with friends my own age (I'm 19) and have centred around the lack of honest, ethical portrayal of female sexuality in porn.
However, I've had plenty of conversations and experiences - some odd, some hilarious, some just sad - that came about because of porn. I've watched it occasionally but don't really feel like it's shaped my sexuality at all. I'm a straight girl and I've crossed paths with porn a couple of times.
